Guided vs Unguided Meditations: What is better for YOU?
Frankly speaking,
both guided and unguided meditations should be a part of your practice! There
are many reasons for that. Guided meditations teach you new things. And they
also disturb you sometimes! While unguided meditations are really distraction
free, but you have fewer chances to learn more!
So let's get to the real topic 'Guided vs Unguided Meditations: What is better for YOU?'
You can decide that by considering three criteria.
1 Since how long have you been
practicing meditation?
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The sole reason is that you have grown enough focus to be attentive during
the entire session. But you can never learn enough in meditation, so trying
different meditation through guided meditations is also necessary.
On the other hand, if you are new to meditation, you should do more
guided meditations.
There are two main reasons for that:
I.
You
will learn more from the guided meditations.
II.
One
requires real focus and attention to do unguided meditation for 20 to 30
minutes! But if you are beginner, you don’t start with that long sessions, also
it is easy to lose interest and start hating meditation if you start like that.
If you are
a beginner, then this article will help you beginning with your meditation
journey.
Now, how
can you know how experienced you are in meditation?
You can answer this by asking
yourself how many types of meditations you know. However just
knowing them isn’t enough, you must have practiced them for months!
Also, take
a challenge, can you meditate more than 1 hours on a guided meditation?
Also consider
since how long have you been practicing meditation? If the
answer is more than a year (daily practice), then I think you should do both
guided and unguided meditations.
2 Do you really enjoy the process or are
doing it because of its benefits?
There are people that have been meditating since years but still find it
difficult to sit down for more than 20 minutes! Don’t worry, I am one of them! Here's how I started my meditation journey!
People like me need guided meditation more than unguided, not because we
don’t know much about meditation, but the timely reminders to take you back to
track are really helping!
But even if you need constant reminders, you need to do unguided
meditations, because in order to increase the focus of your brain, you need to
try harder things!
So people who are able to do unguided meditation without losing focus,
they need to increase the length of the session!
3. How much do you sleep!!
It doesn’t not sound related to the topic, but sleep plays a very
important role on your meditation sessions!
If you have been meditating since a while than you know that having lack
of sleep will just ruin your meditation! You start to feel sleepy, and that
sleepiness initiates dreams and storylines in your head!
So, if you sleep for about 6 hours everyday, and feel sleepy during the
days, (well first thing is you should sleep more!) you need constant reminders
to be focused and alert in meditation! However, it is absolutely okay to be
lost in stories, and you are doing meditation right, if you suddenly realize
that you were dreaming and come back to the object of focus.
"Sleepiness during meditation leaves you with more sleepiness after meditation!"
This is one thing that I have experienced the most!
So how should you tackle that, and what kind of meditation you should
do! It is a no brainer that guided meditations are better (though, not best) in
this scenario. The reason being that you get constant calls to be on track!
So, now you know, 'Guided vs Unguided Meditations: What is better for YOU?'
And the best way to scheduling is experimenting, there is no perfect
schedule that you need to follow, there are no set guidelines that you need to
follow in order to do meditation ‘correctly’. Because as long as you try to
meditate, you are on the right track! Its okay to sleep after meditation. It is
absolutely okay to miss a day! But just don’t get discouraged if you are not able
to concentrate, or you suddenly fall asleep during a session!
If you have any questions regarding meditation, just throw them in the comment section and I will answer them in the FAQ series!
Keep meditating, be consistent, and don't be afraid to explore!
- A Mere Meditator